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Does the wounded cheater ever heal ? Or do they keep cheating because my ex cheated on her husband when they were married before they had kids and after they had kids And the only reason he found out was because she told her best friend who told him Because there dating now

This is Ridiculous

It is Sooooo Difficult to believe ANYTHING YOU SAY✝️💜💖🌹🌺

Does that mean that's how you all got together cuz this is a shock to me I thought that Doug did marriage counseling how come he couldn't work out his own marriage and still trying to work out somebody else's I think it's so sad I don't understand it I guess

My now ex falsely accused me of cheating on him with his friend. Our relationship ended because he believed his thoughts more than what I was telling him

Thank you I don't live in your Country yet years ago I did have suicidal thoughts now after everything I just pray for God to come fetch me I long for God to end it especially when they do what they do then laugh at you as if im a fool then think they can continue

Masturbation send you to hell on earth

Doug is a LIAR.

I hate porn because I've already had two past boyfriends who are addicted to looking a naked woman porn

This man is a liar and uses people's struggles for profits. Intimacy anorexia doesn't exist. This narcissistic use of empathy as a profit means disguised as help is truly evil.

I am currently being gaslighted. Someone i met keeps changing their statements and when i bring it up they completely refuse to accept they ever said it or that they didnt mean that and that i am interpreting it incorrectly. It is so imp to have a confidante in such situations

I'd argue that for many people it is not intentional. It is a coping mechanism of a dysfunctional relationship. However you are still 100 % responsible for your behavior including your IA. You first need to become aware of doing it and the second, deeper step, is understanding why you are doing it. Often it functions as an avoidant defense to prevent you from dealing with more core issues in the relationship. So, there is no need to argue whether IA is intentional or not. You are always 100% responsible for your behavior.

Within this 15.19 min , this doc gives a kind of broad idea about this topic ..good one ..👌

How can you honestly forgive your spouse for sexting another man after being together for 23 years married 21 years

I’m not a hero. I left him.

Hi

My partner is 56years old. He's addicted to porn "transgender". We always argue about that. I don't know what to do with him. What do you suggest? Thanks

Ugh. I've reached a point in my therapy where I have to talk about my most recent ended relationship. I tried to explain that I simply didn't want to rehash any of that experience, especially since I had already compartmentalized that era with an understanding of his true character and the reasons why he consistently betrayed trust. She explained that my most recent trauma of losing my son was intertwined, emotionally, with the trauma of the relationship. Again, I insisted that none of that mattered because the pain of losing my son trumps any and all pain I've ever felt in my entire life and that past traumas don't even register any longer. I told her when something that massively painful happens, it changes your entire life and makes everything else you've endured look minute, if not non-existant. Apparently, I was wrong. She explained my state of mind during the time of my son's passing had a great deal to do with my decision-making processes. She then went on to explain the "trauma brain" and how it completely alters every aspect of your life by way of the chemical responses in the brain pathways. Leaving therapy last week, I still felt skeptical and resistant to rehashing that time of my life as I didn't think it was of any importance any longer. I was wrong. After delving into this subject for many days and countless hours, I've learned so much and realized she knew exactly what she was talking about. I really just need to allow her ro do her job. I feel bad about that. At the time of my son's passing, I was functioning in a state of not trusting myself. Being angry at myself for being so gullible and foolish. Doing the homework she provided really made me understand the emotional turmoil I'd been functioning in for many years. Although I was glad to have finally woke up to the realities of who my ex truly was, the trauma thinking was still present, and the self-deprecating had begun full force. The regret of not being strong enough to leave much earlier to save myself from so much damage and robbing those who I care for and love of my best self. It definitely took effect in all areas of life. I think I'm ready to talk through all of that and get it over and done with, but in all honesty, there's still a small part of me that believes it's irrelevant. Likely, I'll be proven wrong again. We'll see. PS....(edit) Spend as much quality time with those most important in your life. This grief, guilt and pain is a killer. Don't create painful regrets for yourself. Love without entire heart. I love you, Ashkii 💙💙

Thank you so much. Started with puberty. I’ll be 31 in November. I haven’t had a single successful relationship post puberty. I knew I had a problem but didn’t want to admit addiction. I see it’s more than satisfying an urge - thank you for the enlightenment to what the consequences of sin are…. I prayed and prayed this morning, and even satisfied myself just so I could focus on these videos…… I have hope. Thank you Father for answering my prayers with Godly men who give real information and wisdom. Thank you for helping me discover what is in my own heart

To deny a human impulse is denying the very thing it is to be human. It is no measure of health to label someone as ill because they don’t pretend to fit into a profoundly controlled society 🙏

Only those who have gone thru being betrayed understand the devastating and debilitating road that someone else put them on. It literally is a living nightmare. You can't sleep, you can't eat, and nothing brings you simple joy. You feel dirty and sick all over. The emotional washing machine last a long long long time

I never understood why some people think its a compliment to be sexualized to me i find it shallow and dehumanizing at the same time

Dr dough iam from Swaziland 60 yrs old battling with rejection. My mum left me in hospital newly born. Don't know my dad.. Iam aging Nd battling

Some of this is just from too much baggage that one hasnt ever healed from. You can't heal if you dont want healing.

Thanks so mush dr for this video

No thx ….I truly want a “ pure man” not one full of porn images in his head and disgusting sexual habits …..I am disgusted by porn and all men who watches porn either ….it is what it is .

You need to cast the demon of lust & spirit of whoredoms out discipline😢 the flesh cast out the demon

TELL THIS ONE TO MY “ HUSBAND “ …..

I AM NOT RELIGIOUS , BUT …..EVERYONE KNOWS THAT PORN PROMOTES SEXUAL VIOLENCE , PORN ACTRESSES ARE ACTUALLY TRAFFICKED, DRUGGED AND COERCED TO MAKE THE VIDEOS ….ON TOP OF THIS …I BELIEVE IS MORALLY WRONG ….MEN WHO ARE USERS OF PORN IN GENERAL ARE MORALLY CORRUPT AND SICK IN THEIR MIND ….THE GOVERNMENT KNOWS THIS BUT THEY COULD CARE LESS ABOUT THIS ISSUE …..STAY TRULLY AWAKE AND KNOW THE TRUTH .

MY HUSBAND DOES NOT KNOW WHAT SHAME AND GILT IS AT ALL ….

I CAN ONLY SPEAK FOR MYSELF ……AND THE ANSWER IS ……NEVER !!!

Betrayal trauma is not only from a person but I feel it comes from an institution as well as like instance your expectations of joining a university that a particular course will help you to achieve your goals but in reality it is not the case but you still have to continue with that particular institution ( either for financial reasons or whatsoever) that is trauma

YES …IT IS IN MY BOOK …..NO WOMAN SIGNS UP TO BE WITH A MAN THAT LOVES TO GO AROUND LITERALLY OR IN CYBERSPACE OR WATCHES PORN …..IT IS A NORMAL EXPECTATION WHEN WOMEN MARIES ……I am watching all the crime shows so one thing I have NOTICED THAT IS A PATTERN ….. men kill for SEX , MONEY , POWER AND NOTORIETY …..🤷🏻‍♀️

This video should include men as well. I know for a fact that men can experience the same thing.

It last far beyond one year

Nymphs enjoying sex is not a determination it’s knowing yourself enough to control it

hi there i really am interested in purchasing calming the storm of anger, is there any site that i could go to that ships to the uk? if possible. and i would just like to say thank you for your youtube videos of guidance, understanding and knowledge in order for people to heal 🥰

When your truly satisfied and thankful you dnt look at others!

One of best, programs, this view today. Excellent wisdom shared here,,, most Jesus filled and speaks to the reality today,. LUST IS WHEN YOU THINK ANYTHING DIFFERENT THAN GOD THINKS!! WELL DONE HERE!!! VERY WELL STATED!

5yrs sober..thank you jehovah

Leave his sad ass 🤣🤣

Can you do a video or podcast on how different mental health disorders can play into addiction and recovery. Myself, I have ADHD, anxiety and major depressive disorder. Basically how can we tell the difference between an effect of addiction and an effect of disorder.

Was married 20 years, divorced 9 years, he was a gay covert narcissist, we didn’t have sex not even 20 times in those 20 years.

I just want to have bro like relationships with my female friends, without thinking about having sex with them. Even though some would and did, it's not very healthy in most cases.

or trolling young woman more than half his age on social media. 😢